let’s banish fear

I’ve been pondering, of late, why people get so entirely riled up when their beliefs are challenged.  I, of course, include myself in this as well, lest it seem I’m pointing fingers.

I think it can be a natural reaction…at least initially… but it’s where we go from that first point that I think we really need to take a look at.  I’ve seen, both online and in real life, some folks get really bent out of whack over people having differing stances than their own, and the accusations begin to fly

“Well, *I* believe the Bible to be Truth” 

(As if the other does not…)

“I feel the need to defend the Word of God”

(Because God can’t do that for himself?)

“When you compromise on that point…next you will be compromising the entire Gospel.” 

(Really???)

It seems the longer-held the belief is, the more fired up we get when someone suggests that there *might* be a different way to look at it.

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Jesus…a feminist??

These are the questions being posed today, for the second day of the Feminisms Fest synchroblog…

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What is at stake in this discussion? Why is feminism important to you? Are you thinking about your children or your sisters or the people that have come before you? Or, why do you not like the term? What are you concerned we’re not focusing on or we’re losing sight of when we talk about feminism? Why do you feel passionately about this topic?

“Why is feminism important to you?”

Feminism, in and of itself, is not important to me.  We can call it whatever we want.  People are important to me.  If a word trips you up, then toss it and focus on the conceptPEOPLE are important.  Feminism is a tool to correct an injustice.  Women have been treated wrongly, and suffered injustice.  Incorrect thinking, misunderstanding and plain old sin have too long held back all the goodness that God intended life to have, coming through the contributions of male and female.  Feminism is merely a tool to bring about a change…a correction toward  God’s original intent…absolute equality as male and female, together reflecting the Image of the Creator. 

So when we ask what is at stake…I would say…in a word (okay, two words)- redemption and restoration.  It’s bigger than my feelings, goals or ambitions.  It’s more than wanting to see the next generation of girls thriving in their gifts and talents (though that is certainly part of it).  I believe it’s about God’s heart…God’s design.

It’s about returning to Plan A.

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love well

Valentine’s Day.

A holiday that is cherished by some, despised by others.  It can elicit a giddy, gleeful sound at the mere mention, or a sighing, eye-rolling, groan.  When in a season of blissful romance, nothing feels more right than a national holiday to amp up your euphoria.  When in a season of loneliness, enduring the seemingly never-ending day can feel like salt being ground mercilessly into a wound.

It can be a day filled with heightened expectations…and also crashing disappointment.

In my estimation, the only way to avoid the rollercoaster ride of the yearly Valentine traditions is to make the day truly, purely about…Love.

I know, I know…seems obvious.  Duh.  That’s exactly what makes it so good…and so bad, right?

Well, let me clarify.  I’m saying don’t make the day about romance.  Make it about love…and loving well.

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Advent

During this season of election in our nation, I have watched the Church, and how we as a whole have acted, and reacted.  I’ve seen good, and bad, and yes, some downright ugly.  That is not a statement of judgement any more than it is one of exaltation.  It just ‘is’…we are a Bride being readied for a glorious and coming wedding day…but frankly, we’re still running around with curlers in our hair and no make up on.  Not quite ready yet…but at the same time, in the beautification process.  Thankfully, God’s not done with us yet!

Which brings me to the real reason for my post…Hope.  Not hope in a political system of this world, but rather Hope in a True King…one who’s government is that of peace, and whose reign will never end!

For to us a child is born,
    to us a son is given,
    and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
    Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Of the greatness of his government and peace
    there will be no end.
He will reign on David’s throne
    and over his kingdom,
establishing and upholding it
    with justice and righteousness
    from that time on and forever.
The zeal of the Lord Almighty
    will accomplish this.  ~Isaiah 9:6-7

Somehow, this year in particular, it is with great excitement that I am looking toward the Advent season…not just ‘Christmas’, as remembering and celebrating the birth of our Savior, (which I most certainly do love!), but also the meaningful weeks of remembrance and looking toward the return of a King, who will put aside all the politicking and debating and struggle and war, and will reign with love and peace, justice and righteousness.  All will truly be right in the world once again, as redemption will be complete.

My spirit soars as I think, not just of a babe in a manger, but as I ponder all the wonder of the King on the Throne.  The anticipation that swells in my heart, looking and awaiting THAT glorious day makes all the excitement and joy of an earthly Christmas celebration pale in comparison!  And yet, what an apt thing that we would experience a taste, a glimmer, of that kind of beauty during this time of year.  We may tend to remember the lowly birth, but also, let us think of the multiplied joy as we anticipate the glorious coronation.  Now THAT makes me want to sing…

“JOY TO THE WORLD!!!” 

Kingdom Leadership

Today we began teaching a series on ‘Kingdom Leadership’ at church.  It’s an amazing, exciting, freeing topic to me.  It’s amazing to see, all throughout scripture, that God uses the same ‘structure’ for leadership in every area of life.  Whether it is a church, a family, a marriage…all of these relationships have ‘structure’ and the structure has the same key elements.

First, it is essential to understand that the main purpose of leadership is for the person(s) being led to grow and flourish.  To be released to do or be all that God has designed them to.  So many people have a bad view of leadership because leaders, at some point in their life have misused their authority for their own gain, and probably stepped on them in the process.  True godly leadership should always be servant leadership and ‘other’ focused.  It is never about getting one’s own way, or doing something for the purpose of selfish gain.  We can see this model repeated over and over throughout scripture.  Not only does it ‘work’, serving under godly leadership brings joy and fulfillment in the lives of those being led.  In the next few posts, I will give examples from scripture of healthy, godly leadership in different life settings.

Throughout the course of life, most, if not every person will walk in the role of both ‘leader’ and ‘follower’ in some manner.  When we understand the privilege and responsibility of leadership, we come to value those who lead and have authority in our lives, and we ourselves become both better leaders and followers.  Whether you are leading a team, a family, a company, or a church, God gives us excellent guidelines of what it means and looks like to lead, and they are principles that apply in all settings.  And if you are following, God also gives us an understanding of how that is a blessing designed for our own benefit, and how we can and should best respond to those leaders in our lives.

The first example of leadership that I want to highlight from scripture can be found in the very, very beginning… Genesis 1.  In this first chapter of Genesis we see God creating all the universe, and handing over the privilege and responsibility of ruling the creation to Adam and Eve.  They were told to take ‘dominion’ over the earth…in order to make it flourish and grow and reproduce.  God’s intent was never for them to rule it in a way that would destroy, crush or suppress his creation.  And thus, we see God’s blueprint for all leadership.  Cultivate that which was already there, in order to bring forth life.  This is, or should be, at it’s most basic level, the goal of any type of leadership.

We see the same type of leadership modeled for us in the relationship of Jesus to his Heavenly Father.  Jesus said he only did what he saw his Father doing (John 5:19), he wished for the difficult cup of facing crucifixion to pass from him, yet said “Not my will, but Yours be done…” (Luke 22:42), and we see in Philippians 2 that Jesus humbled himself to come to earth, taking the role of a servant, not considering himself ‘equal’ with his Father (choosing to take the role of submission to his Father’s authority).  But what we see in this, was that Jesus, by coming under his Father’s authority, was in turn actually endowed with all authority to be able to minister and accomplish his purposes in the earth.  His Father’s intent was not to ‘use’ Jesus for his own ‘gain’, but rather, to partner with him, to equip him with all he would need, for Jesus to accomplish his goal and purpose on the earth…that of redeeming all of creation!!

Take some time to think about those that God has placed in leadership or authority in your life, in order for you to flourish and walk out your destiny!

(Next post: God’s Leadership Model in Parenting)